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Hey everyone 🙋
Been a long long time..hope all my reader friends are doing good….
Today’s post is more of a self reflecting and self assuring message!!
In today’s world, being a working mom, one is torn between being there for your kids and trying to excel in one’s career…
Sometimes in the relentless race to strive and do our best, we tend to stop, look back and self reflect…. I too am no exception…trying to be the best version of me…best put as struggling!!!
Being a female surgeon in a male dominated world, calls for competition and the need to excel at every step!!
Don’t even get me started🙄
Being a mom, managing a home, trying to teach my baby to survive in this unforgiving world, trying to be there for your kid at every point in their life, pursuing the extra hobbies I have always wanted to but couldn’t due to never ending studies, one has to sacrifice a few things …
I do look longingly at the many a faces presenting at conferences, being famous for their outstanding work, getting a chance to travel the world and think am I doing enough but then at the end of the day you either sacrifice family life or your career..( kudos to women who manage both…I do envy them but gladly cheer for them too)
So here’s me trying to hold on to both…Jack of all trades, master of none one might say, but all I know is I am being myself…Being Nee!!!🧑⚕️
Taking that much needed break when I want to, not wanting to be a part of the rat race, trying to be there for my family and daughter..
Cause at the end of the day people don’t remember your presentations, they remember your presence in their life and how you made them feel..
So that’s how I would like to be..
PS : This post is more of a self assuring message for myself and for all those Women/Mother’s hounded by the thought that they are not doing enough… Reassuring myself..yes I am doing my best…This is enough!!